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25 Things I Learned From Opening a Bookstore
If someone comes in and asks for a recommendation and you ask for the name of a book that they liked and they can't think of one, the person is not really a reader.  Recommend Nicholas Sparks.

6.  Kids will stop by your store on their way home from school if you have a free bucket of kids books.  If you also give out free gum, they'll come every day and start bringing their friends.
books  bookstore  humor  advice  fave 
february 2012 by patrix
When Children’s Art Takes Over the Home
AFTER careful consideration, Jessica Hanff has found the ideal spot for the art that her 4-year-old daughter, Elisabeth, brings home from preschool: the trash can.

Don't worry, this isn't one of those 'Tiger Mom' articles and the focus is different from what the quote may imply.
art  parenting  children  advice  fave 
january 2011 by patrix
Let me speak
Here is my big idea: stop trying to kill your stammer. That metaphor about the homunculus, or the badly-behaved dog, or however you visualize it, eventually becomes a hindrance to resolution. Change how you perceive your stammer. Stop seeing it as an enemy to be vanquished: it is an integral part of the process of how you think, perceive others, and process language, and no good ever came of hating an integral part of yourself (as opposed to an undesirable character trait.) Your stammer informs your relationship with language and enrichens it, if only because you need more structures and vocabulary at your command.

Topical because of 'The King's Speech' and personal because people who know me know that I too stammer.
speech  fave  advice 
january 2011 by patrix
Roald Dahl on Overcoming Writer's Block
I never come back to a blank page; I always finish about halfway through. To be confronted with a blank page is not very nice. But Hemingway, a great American writer, taught me the finest trick when you are doing a long book, which is, he simply said in his own words, “When you are going good, stop writing.” And that means that if everything’s going well and you know exactly where the end of the chapter’s going to go and you know just what the people are going to do, you don’t go on writing and writing until you come to the end of it, because when you do, then you say, well, where am I going to go next? And you get up and you walk away and you don’t want to come back because you don’t know where you want to go. But if you stop when you are going good, as Hemingway said…then you know what you are going to say next. You make yourself stop, put your pencil down and everything, and you walk away. And you can’t wait to get back because you know what you want to say next and that.

I'm no writer but this has worked for me even while writing graduate school term papers.
writing  advice  fave 
january 2011 by patrix
Janet Fitch's 10 rules for writers
"Long ago I got a rejection from the editor of the Santa Monica Review, Jim Krusoe. It said: “Good enough story, but what’s unique about your sentences?” That was the best advice I ever got. Learn to look at your sentences, play with them, make sure there’s music, lots of edges and corners to the sounds. Read your work aloud."

I remember writing a post quoting an article that described how good people write bad sentences. The author of that article commented on the post pointing out a 'bad sentence' in my post. I'm still not there yet.
writing  advice  tips  howto  pb 
july 2010 by patrix
How To Fight
Yet verbal fighting, like physical fighting, is a skill. Domestic fighting can be learned. One can become very good at it — although almost nobody is, because almost nobody thinks it's necessary to learn this skill.
howto  lifehacks  advice  communication  argument  debate  nefa 
january 2010 by patrix
How to Go to the Zoo
I’d like to take a moment and explain a new way to go to the zoo. A better way. For you.
tips  advice  animals  howto  zoo  children  nefa 
november 2009 by patrix
The Way I Work: Matt Mullenweg
Matt Mullenweg, founder of Word Press and Automattic, manages a successful Internet business where everyone is working from home.
wordpress  business  software  advice  home  entrepreneurship  management  startup  work  nefa 
june 2009 by patrix
13 Things Your Waiter Won't Tell You
Waiters share insider secrets about restaurant -- from what days to avoid dining out to how much to tip.
advice  tips  culture  health  articles  restaurant  food  nefa 
july 2008 by patrix
"How to Say Nothing in 500 Words"
Be concrete, says Roberts; get to the point; express your opinions colorfully. Refreshingly, he even practices what he preaches. His essay is humorous, direct, and almost salty in summarizing the working habits that all good prose writers must cultivate.
advice  education  howto  writing  nefa 
july 2008 by patrix
When Mom and Dad Share It All - Adventures in Equal Parenting
They would work equal hours, spend equal time with their children, take equal responsibility for their home. Neither would be the keeper of the mental to-do lists; neither of their careers would take precedence.
parenting  relationships  marriage  advice  society  gender  nefa 
july 2008 by patrix
10 Tips for Utterly Destroying Your Blog and Your Credibility
And frankly it doesn't take much work to achieve that. But I'm sure you don't want to.
blogging  Blogs  advice  NEFA 
april 2007 by patrix

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