25 Things I Learned From Opening a Bookstore
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february 2012 by patrix
If someone comes in and asks for a recommendation and you ask for the name of a book that they liked and they can't think of one, the person is not really a reader. Recommend Nicholas Sparks.
6. Kids will stop by your store on their way home from school if you have a free bucket of kids books. If you also give out free gum, they'll come every day and start bringing their friends.
february 2012 by patrix
When Children’s Art Takes Over the Home
Don't worry, this isn't one of those 'Tiger Mom' articles and the focus is different from what the quote may imply.
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january 2011 by patrix
AFTER careful consideration, Jessica Hanff has found the ideal spot for the art that her 4-year-old daughter, Elisabeth, brings home from preschool: the trash can.
Don't worry, this isn't one of those 'Tiger Mom' articles and the focus is different from what the quote may imply.
january 2011 by patrix
Let me speak
Topical because of 'The King's Speech' and personal because people who know me know that I too stammer.
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january 2011 by patrix
Here is my big idea: stop trying to kill your stammer. That metaphor about the homunculus, or the badly-behaved dog, or however you visualize it, eventually becomes a hindrance to resolution. Change how you perceive your stammer. Stop seeing it as an enemy to be vanquished: it is an integral part of the process of how you think, perceive others, and process language, and no good ever came of hating an integral part of yourself (as opposed to an undesirable character trait.) Your stammer informs your relationship with language and enrichens it, if only because you need more structures and vocabulary at your command.
Topical because of 'The King's Speech' and personal because people who know me know that I too stammer.
january 2011 by patrix
Roald Dahl on Overcoming Writer's Block
I'm no writer but this has worked for me even while writing graduate school term papers.
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january 2011 by patrix
I never come back to a blank page; I always finish about halfway through. To be confronted with a blank page is not very nice. But Hemingway, a great American writer, taught me the finest trick when you are doing a long book, which is, he simply said in his own words, “When you are going good, stop writing.” And that means that if everything’s going well and you know exactly where the end of the chapter’s going to go and you know just what the people are going to do, you don’t go on writing and writing until you come to the end of it, because when you do, then you say, well, where am I going to go next? And you get up and you walk away and you don’t want to come back because you don’t know where you want to go. But if you stop when you are going good, as Hemingway said…then you know what you are going to say next. You make yourself stop, put your pencil down and everything, and you walk away. And you can’t wait to get back because you know what you want to say next and that.
I'm no writer but this has worked for me even while writing graduate school term papers.
january 2011 by patrix
Janet Fitch's 10 rules for writers
july 2010 by patrix
"Long ago I got a rejection from the editor of the Santa Monica Review, Jim Krusoe. It said: “Good enough story, but what’s unique about your sentences?” That was the best advice I ever got. Learn to look at your sentences, play with them, make sure there’s music, lots of edges and corners to the sounds. Read your work aloud."
I remember writing a post quoting an article that described how good people write bad sentences. The author of that article commented on the post pointing out a 'bad sentence' in my post. I'm still not there yet.
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I remember writing a post quoting an article that described how good people write bad sentences. The author of that article commented on the post pointing out a 'bad sentence' in my post. I'm still not there yet.
july 2010 by patrix
How To Fight
january 2010 by patrix
Yet verbal fighting, like physical fighting, is a skill. Domestic fighting can be learned. One can become very good at it — although almost nobody is, because almost nobody thinks it's necessary to learn this skill.
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january 2010 by patrix
How to Go to the Zoo
november 2009 by patrix
I’d like to take a moment and explain a new way to go to the zoo. A better way. For you.
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november 2009 by patrix
The Way I Work: Matt Mullenweg
june 2009 by patrix
Matt Mullenweg, founder of Word Press and Automattic, manages a successful Internet business where everyone is working from home.
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home
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june 2009 by patrix
"How to Say Nothing in 500 Words"
july 2008 by patrix
Be concrete, says Roberts; get to the point; express your opinions colorfully. Refreshingly, he even practices what he preaches. His essay is humorous, direct, and almost salty in summarizing the working habits that all good prose writers must cultivate.
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july 2008 by patrix
When Mom and Dad Share It All - Adventures in Equal Parenting
july 2008 by patrix
They would work equal hours, spend equal time with their children, take equal responsibility for their home. Neither would be the keeper of the mental to-do lists; neither of their careers would take precedence.
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july 2008 by patrix
How to write a book - the short honest truth
august 2007 by patrix
If only it was that easy.
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august 2007 by patrix
10 Tips for Utterly Destroying Your Blog and Your Credibility
april 2007 by patrix
And frankly it doesn't take much work to achieve that. But I'm sure you don't want to.
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april 2007 by patrix
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