matthewmcvickar + family   5

NYTimes.com: Dan Savage on the Virtues of Infidelity
“Treating monogamy, rather than honesty or joy or humor, as the main indicator of a successful marriage gives people unrealistic expectations of themselves and their partners. And that, Savage says, destroys more families than it saves.”
marriage  relationships  dansavage  sex  love  family  homosexuality 
july 2011 by matthewmcvickar
The Ancient Kingdom of Dalriada
Where my ancestor is thought to have come from.

“There are two Dalriadas: that of northwest Ireland, and that of western Scotland.”
history  ancestry  family  self 
april 2011 by matthewmcvickar
NYTimes.com: The Animal-Cruelty Syndrome
This piece is incredibly sad. But it is hopeful also. The expansion of pet-based forensic science teams, the increasing intersection of psychological examinations of pet abuse and how it relates to bad home situations, and the use of animals for therapeutic practice are three wonderful things. A must-read.
society  animals  family  psychology  america  crime  children 
june 2010 by matthewmcvickar
NYTimes.com: Your Brain on Computers — Attached to Technology and Paying a Price
This guy seems to have some family issues that his addiction to incoming data via screens is severely aggravating. I experience, on a smaller scale, some of the problems outlined in this article, and, though none of this is particularly new to me, it's frightening to see these habits taken down the slippery slope.

Should all of us, and especially people like Kord, make a concerted effort to make screens less a part of our lives, lest we lose our humanity? Or is trying to avoid technology's increasing integration with our every second just being traditionally biased and counter-progressive? I think there is a middle ground where one can be hooked in and focused on doing work while still not ignoring ones' children. Food for thought.
society  technology  brain  computers  internet  culture  multitasking  neuroscience  distraction  focus  family  history 
june 2010 by matthewmcvickar

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